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reviews
UK/International
Reviews
People
("Critic's
Choice")
June 27, 2005
"Breakfast with Tiffany is charming without being sentimental.
Wintle's dead-on wit sparks the narrative, and his neurotic but
creative approach to child-rearing is bracing . . . In the end,
both Wintle and his feisty niece learn more than expected about
the power of love -- in all of its incarnations."
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Entertainment
Weekly: (#113 on the 2005 MUST LIST: "122 People & Things
We Love This Summer")
June 24/ July 1, 2005
"Wintle's new memoir, recounting how the gay writer came to
raise 13-year-old niece Tiffany, is one of the most unconventional
-- and heart-warming -- parenting guides ever."
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ELLE
(Winner of the “Elle’s Lettres” August Readers’
Prize)
August, 2005
“In a three-way photo finish,
[our readers] favored actor, lawyer, film agent, man about town, and
newbie author Edwin John Wintle’s account of taking his niece
under his wing over the latest from two seasoned authors and magazine
writers. . . . This is an endearing coming-of-age story set in the
Big Apple. It’s easy to get caught up in the seamlessly written
narrative of ‘Uncle Eddy,’ who in trying to help save
his troubled niece winds up saving himself. Wintle bewitchingly captures
both the spirit of the angst-ridden girl and his own fears of inadequacy
as a substitute parent. This lovely journey of two people becoming
a real, modern family brought back memories of my nephew crashing
at my house as a teen and of my struggle to be both a friend and a
guardian to him. . . . I wish I’d had a fairy god-uncle
back when I was in high school." |
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Time
Out New York (10th Anniversary Issue)
October 5, 2005
“Wintle’s uncle perspective
is a unique one, and the prose of his first book is fast-paced, loving,
absorbing and wonderfully witty.” |
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The
London Times Sunday Book Review
August 7, 2005
“Prepare to be seriously charmed. Prepare to have your heart
wrenched and your cockles warmed. . . Exquisite.”
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New
York Magazine -- A “Best Beach Reading” Pick
The Summer Issue: July 4 – 11, 2005
“Heartwarming” |
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Entertainment
Weekly: (Grade B+)
June 17, 2004
"In his funny, caring, gentle way, Wintle manages to get through
to Tiffany, and she to him, forming an odd but very real family." |
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Time
Out (Summer Reading Pick)
May 5-11, 2005
“Wintle’s
book, already being made into a film, is Baby Boom meets
Auntie Mame, only the adult is a gay bachelor in Greenwich
Village and the child is his troubled teen niece from Connecticut.
Seen through witty, neat-freak eyes, it’s all quite entertaining.” |
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Genre
July 2005
"Surprisingly affecting . . . The interaction between 'Uncle
Eddy' and Tiffany is nothing short of irresistable." |
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Out
June 2005
".
. . breezy and entertaining . . . Wintle's true-life tale eventually
generates real emotional weight. The relationships between gay men
and their families are often fraught with danger, but Breakfast
with Tiffany portrays a homo overachiever intent on lifting his
loved ones up — against their will if necessary."
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Kirkus
Reviews (Starred
review)
May 1, 2005
"She's 13, he's 40; she's been given her walking papers from
her mother, he's the uncle there to catch her: they are a modernized
odd couple, and the sparks they throw are a glowing pyrotechnic display.
Tiffany is a life force with attitude problems, a taste for belly-button
jewels and face tackle, who informs Wintle that snorting dust will
make you paranoid (heroin makes you mellow, she notes), and can play
her uncle's heart like a bongo and crack it like a coconut; Wintle
is an obsessive-compulsive "all-time Control Queen" who
will rise to the occasion, bringing to it a delightfully nuanced,
impractical, caring, ham-handed, heart-gladdening, inclusive, protective
approach. [Wintle] struggles to meet each new challenge head on, taking
cues from his own sad youth and fraught adulthood . . . with a gorgeous
clarity. The story begins and ends with Tiffany's freshman year at
high school . . . leaving readers to pray for volumes sophomore through
senior." |
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Publisher's
Weekly
April 25, 2005
"[Wintle]
does an exceptional job of portraying Tiffany as a complex teenager
. . . The lighthearted tone makes a serious subject amusing, and Wintle
is charmingly self-deprecating . . . the journey is eye-opening, and
anyone who's wondered about the mysterious lives of teenagers will
enjoy Wintle's tale." |
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Instinct
(Grade: A)
June 2005
"Edwin John Wintle takes on a role other gay men may wonder
if they'd be good at: parenting. "Good art always stirs up
some emotions," Wintle tells his niece, Tiffany -- who has
come to live with him in Manhattan to get away from a horrible home
life with her mother, Wintle's sister. Emotions are indeed stirred
in this remarkably syrup-free, honest account of raising a 12-year-old
girl in a dangerous city. They work through real pain, frustration,
heartbreak, rebellion, preteen angst and mind-boggling parental
fear and helplessness with determination and gritty hope. It's not
sappy; it's good art."
Detroit
News
June, 2006
“Memoirs
don't have the best reputation right now, but don't let Oprah villain
James Frey ruin it for the good guys like Edwin John Wintle, whose
Breakfast with Tiffany: An Uncle's Memoir, is a
refreshing, quick read in a genre that can be tired.”
NY
Newsday
July 17, 2005
“A sassy narrator, Wintle’s story shakes things up.
Funny and poignant . . . bright storytelling”
Chicago Tribune
July 31, 2005
“Wintle knows how to milk a dramatic moment. His exacting
eye for the details of teenhood are rich. In a country where several
states ban adoption by gays and lesbians and anti-gay marriage crusaders
stomp on homosexual family values, Wintle’s story of nontraditional
parenting proves the personal is political.”
Seattle Post-Intelligencer
June 17, 2005
“A winning, realistic and sometimes scary memoir of parenting
in the teen years.”
Cleveland Plain Dealer
June 19, 2005
“A heart-warming, cautionary tale, Wintle doesn’t create
false, sentimental scenes. His honesty leavens his intentions with
the reality all parents face. This is a book about real life. And
love.”
Palm Beach Post
June 26, 2005
“A breezy, conversational writer . . . Wintle doesn’t
make either himself or his niece into sitcom cartoons. Tiffany and
Uncle Eddy are both layered people. Wintle is rather wise, although
he’s careful not to be caught at it . . . [A] mingled, bittersweet
feeling is what makes Breakfast with Tiffany such an unassuming
joy.”
San Diego Union-Tribune
July 17, 2005
“Uncle Eddy is very sane and isn’t going to be buffaloed,
so much of the book plays like an extended episode of ‘Supernanny’
– the gay, slightly frivolous New Yorker with transsexual
best friend spends a lot of his time channeling Robert Young in
‘Father Knows Best.’”
Frontiers
(2005 "Best of the Best")
"Deliriously self-aware . . . How a self-absorbed, obsessive,
40-year-old gay man becomes a parent in the face of the irrationality
of teenage girldom is hysterically funny, eye-opening, and unforgettable."
Inside Out Hudson Valley
"It's a sad, funny, insightful, and challenging chronicle of
the first year of this unconventional family . . . and we're lucky
enough to get a glimpse into this tumultuous yet tender beginning."
Southern
Voice
May 27, 2005
"Uncle's
story of raising troubled niece transcends gay [and] parenting memoirs
with compelling account of love and self-doubt.
. . . . interesting, enjoyable, challenging . . . emotionally
riveting writing. The book jacket likens him to fellow gay writers
and memoirists Augusten Burroughs and David Sedaris, but the comparison
falls short. That's not a criticism of Wintle. It's just that the
incidents Wintle recounts in "Breakfast," at times seemingly
outrageous, never push the boundaries of believability like some
of Burroughs' anecdotes. And while Wintle is certainly witty, his
writing never hits the level of hilarious sarcasm inherent in Sedaris'
essays. But perhaps because of this, Wintle also reaches emotional
depths often missing in Sedaris' just-for-laughs observations."
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